unfatal attraction

"the phone calls stop.. the suspicions begin....you confide with girlfriends...the stalker moves take place......... wait...stop .. stop.. stop...... i refuse to go there with any man!

why do we do this to ourselves? why is it so necessary to believe that we have to know a man's every move. don't get me wrong - i've been there and done that, and after being caught - i was taught one hell of a lesson: snoop, but be prepared - or just stop snooping altogether. i have chosen the latter. i have realized that no matter how much we think we know someone - the reality is that we don't know them as well as we once thought. the more we put into a relationship, the more we want the same effort reciprocated. the more we give love to someone, the more we want that same love in return. ideally this would work out fine - you put in 100%, i put in 100% - unfortunately, continue reading >>